Story of a Man, Married But Still Dating

A husband, pastor, author, and blogger, Jarrid Wilson, made a confession that has everybody admitting lately. Let’s see how it is so.

A post with a title, “I’m Dating Someone Even Though I’m Married,” was on Jarrid’s blog in which he wrote that he has a confession. He is dating somebody although he is married.

Telling about the girl he dating he said that she is an unbelievable girl. She is gorgeous, elegant, cunning, strong, and has a very strong belief in God. He loves to go out with her to dinner, cinemas, local shows, and tell her how gorgeous she is all the time. Even he don’t know when the last time he was angry with her for more than five minutes, and her smile brighten up his day every time, no matter the situations.

He further thought that occasionally she will visit him at work unexpectedly, make him an amazing lunch, or even amaze him with something she cooked herself. He can’t imagine how lucky he is to be with her even though he is not single. He inspires others to give it a try and understand what dating can do for their life.

Then suddenly he shifted the paradigm by mentioning that the woman he is dating is his wife. He then wrote that just because one is married, doesn’t mean his dating life should expire.

He needs to carry on dating his wife even after he marries her. Following his wife shouldn’t discontinue just for the reason that they both said, “I do.” Many more times he sees relationships end because people don’t take the initiative to pursue one another.

Dating is a stage where you get to know about somebody in an exclusive and exceptional way. Why would you want that to ever take a break? You should not. Those feelings you got on the first date shouldn’t stop just sue to the time have passed. Wake up every day and pursue your partner as if you are still on your early dates. You will see a radical change for the good in your bond.

As far as any relationship is concerned, communication and the act of continuous pursuit are keys. Not anybody wishes to be with someone who does not want to pursue them passionately.

Jarrid Wilson ended by saying that he encourages us to date our spouse, pursue them passionately, and realize that dating shouldn’t end just because you are married.